Why god? Whyyyyyyyyy this is the 5th time god damnit. I have held interest in 6 people in my life, and 4.5 of those times they come out as men?? I have nothing against trans ppl, Iām a lesbian for Christ sake, but this pattern is making me confused in my own sexuality. I like masc and femme girls the same but for 4 times, the girls I like have come out as men afterwards and now Iām wondering why this keeps happening. After they come out as men I lose all attraction and just get sad afterwards because what little chance I had is lost so what does this mean??? Do I like women or pre-transitioned men?