IMPROVEMENT ๐ = TIME ๐โฐ X โ EFFORT ๐ช This was one 1๏ธโฃ of my earliest discoveries ๐ฌ in my journey ๐๐. This is many ๐ฌ reasons ๐ why ๐ค I ๐ฅ advise โผ guys ๐ฆ to focus ๐ on ๐ fitness ๐ — it’s one ๐ค of the clearest manifestations ๐ of this principle ๐. If you ๐ go ๐ to the gym ๐ช several ๐ฏ times โฐ2๏ธโฃ a week ๐, you’ll get ๐ stronger ๐ช. If you ๐ go ๐ running ๐ several ๐ฏ times ๐ a week ๐
, you’ll get ๐ faster ๐๐ปโโ๏ธ๐จ and improve โฌ your ๐ stamina ๐. Record ๐ฅ your ๐ workouts ๐โโ๏ธ๐โโ๏ธโค and your ๐ performance ๐ญ, and you’ll quickly ๐๐ป๐จ see ๐ a positive ๐ฉโ linear ๐จ relationship ๐ซ between ๐๐ the work ๐ผ you ๐ put ๐ in and the results ๐๐ฏ you ๐๐ฆ get ๐ out of it. Improvement โฌ is simply ๐ก a function โโ of time ๐ and effort ๐ช. What I ๐ realized ๐ก is that this applies ๐ to everything ๐ฏ in life ๐ค. I ๐ฅ originally ๐ struggled ๐ฉ because I ๐ focused ๐ on ๐ achievement ๐ฏโ, not improvement โฌ. I’m ๐ sure ๐ you’ve heard ๐๐ฉ๐ฎ the cliche, “you ๐ can accomplish ๐ anything ๐ฐ if you ๐ put ๐ your ๐ mind ๐คฏ to it.” The reason ๐ why ๐ง๐ค this is an empty ๐ cliche are the words ๐ “accomplish ๐” and “mind ๐ง .” It implies ๐๐ช the entire ๐ฌ universe ๐ฑ๐๐ of accomplishment ๐ฐ is simply ๐ข a matter ๐
of mental ๐ง strength ๐ช, which is clearly ๐๐ false ๐โ. As I’m ๐ sure ๐ you ๐ realized ๐ก long ๐ before ๐ you ๐ ever ๐ visited ๐๐ป this web ๐ท site ๐ป๐ฑ, outcomes ๐คทโโ๏ธ are sometimes โจ out of your ๐ control ๐, and you ๐ can’t โ accomplish ๐ everything ๐ฏ you ๐ want ๐. But ๐ you ๐ can improve โฌ. You ๐๐ป may ๐ never ๐
be an Olympic ๐ marathon โ๐ฆ runner ๐. But ๐ if you ๐ put ๐ in the effort ๐ฉ๐ซ๐ช๐ป required ๐ to be a marathon ๐โโ๏ธ๐ runner ๐, over ๐ time ๐ you ๐๐ will improve ๐๐พ. And with enough ๐ฆ time ๐, you ๐๐ป๐ณ will be able ๐ช to complete ๐ซ a 10K ๐คฏ, then a half ๐ marathon ๐โโ๏ธ๐, then a full ๐ marathon โ๐ฆ, and then perhaps ๐ค even ๐ run ๐๐พ in marathon ๐ races ๐๐ผโโ๏ธ competitively ๐ฏ. In doing so you ๐ will achieve ๐ฏโ much ๐ฅ more than 99 ๐ซ% of anyone ๐ else ๐ฉ, and your ๐ก๐ journey ๐ will be rewarding ๐๐๐ because it will be focused ๐ on ๐๐ ๐ improvement ๐, and not arbitrary objectives ๐ at the end ๐. This is why โ๐๐ค all ๐ฏ the advice ๐ค JoshSway . com ๐ผ๐ฟ is focused ๐ง on ๐ improvement โฌ. I ๐ฅ will tell ๐ฃ you ๐๐ผ how to become ๐ a better ๐๐ and more attractive ๐
๐๐ฟ๐จ man ๐ฆ, but ๐ I ๐ won’t โ tell ๐ฌ you ๐ when โฐ you’re “better ๐ enough ๐บ” or “attractive ๐๐ฅฐ enough ๐บ.” You ๐ can’t โ always ๐ฅ control ๐ฎ outcomes ๐คทโโ๏ธ, but ๐ you ๐ can control ๐ your ๐๐ป satisfaction ๐ with outcomes ๐คทโโ๏ธ, and you ๐ can control ๐ whether ๐ฉ๐ง you ๐๐ can improve โฌ enough ๐ฆ until you ๐ get ๐ the outcome ๐คทโโ๏ธ you ๐ want ๐. And that is the key ๐ to a fulfilling and successful ๐ฏโ journey ๐ to self-improvement. THE EASIEST ๐ถ WAY โ TO DEMONSTRATE ๐ง๐ผ HIGH ๐ VALUE ๐ฐ IS TO HAVE HIGH ๐ VALUE โณ๐ฐ๐ฎ There is a concept ๐ค known ๐ as “Demonstrating ๐ง๐ผ High โฌ Value ๐ถ๐ด๐ฐ,” where men ๐จ๐๐ฆ try ๐ to prove ๐ค their worthiness ๐๐ฐ๐ต as mates โค๐
๐ to women ๐ง. In previous โฌ
centuries ๐ฏ, this was very ๐ transparent. Families ๐ช openly ๐ negotiated for their sons ๐ฆ๐ณ and daughters ๐
โโ๏ธ๐คฑ to get ๐ married ๐ฐ๐ largely ๐ on ๐ the basis โ of wealth ๐ต. Land ๐ and gold ๐
were valued, so having high ๐ amounts ๐ฏ of land ๐ฌ or gold ๐๐ฅ๐
was therefore ๐ค๐ก demonstrating ๐ง๐ผ high โฌ value ๐ช. Fortunately ๐ฅ, in modern ๐ฅ society ๐ฅ we value ๐ฐ more than just sheer ๐ wealth ๐ต๐ด๐ถ (although ๐๐ป it certainly ๐ doesn’t hurt ๐ค). Much ๐ฅ is written ๐ about ๐ค talking ๐ฃ, behaving โค๐
ฐ, or dressing ๐ in certain ๐ ways โ to demonstrate ๐
๐๐ value ๐ฐ, and this advice ๐ฏ can certainly ๐ help ๐. But ๐ these are simply ๐ข multiplier ๐ฆ effects ๐ซ based ๐ on ๐ your ๐๐ฉ๐บ actual ๐ณ value ๐ฐ. What is high โฌ value ๐ช in today’s ๐
world ๐? I ๐ would argue ๐ฃ๐ฌ it’s happiness ๐. Happiness ๐ derived ๐ from your ๐ family ๐ช, from your ๐ education ๐, from your ๐โ career ๐จ๐ปโ๐ป, from your ๐ friends ๐ฌ, from your ๐ body ๐ and health ๐ฅ, and everything ๐ฏ else ๐ฟ๐ฉ we consider ๐ค important โ in our lives ๐ค. This is why โ๐๐ค JoshSway . com ๐ถ discusses ๐ฃ๐ improvement ๐ in all ๐ฏ these areas โ ๐, and not simply ๐ข techniques ๐ฅ๐คน to impress ๐ women ๐ฉ. It’s axiomatic that possessing ๐ low ๐ value ๐ฐ makes ๐ it considerably harder ๐๐ to demonstrate ๐
๐๐ high โฌ value โณ๐ฐ๐ฎ. Even ๐ if you’re unhappy ๐ฐ๐ฑ with your ๐ job ๐๐ผ๐ or unhealthy ๐ท in mind ๐ง or body ๐๐, you ๐๐ซ may ๐ still ๐ be able ๐ช to use ๐ป conversational ๐ค tricks ๐๐ป and various ๐จโ๐ฉโ๐งโ๐ฆ๐ gimmicks to impress ๐ a woman ๐ง๐ at a bar ๐ฏ. But ๐ค think ๐ญโ about ๐ค๐ญ how much ๐ฅ more effective ๐ you ๐ would be is you ๐ were satisfied ๐คคโบ๐ with those areas โ ๐ of your ๐ life ๐ค! JoshSway . com ๐
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ฐ will show ๐บ you ๐๐ผ how to increase โ your ๐ value ๐ฐ intrinsically โ, and then maximize ๐ฆ๐ how you โ๐ demonstrate ๐
๐๐ that value ๐ฐ externally.
ATTRACTING WOMEN ๐ฉ TO ATTRACT ๐ THE WOMAN ๐ง๐ท YOU ๐ WANT ๐ The advice ๐ค I ๐ give ๐ in JoshSway . com ๐
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ฐ is not to arbitrarily ๐ค๐ซ increase โคด the number ๐ข of women ๐๐ฉ you ๐๐พ have sex ๐ with. This is not a “pickup โซ artist ๐จ” or “seduction ๐๐” site ๐ป๐ฑ. I ๐ will discuss ๐ฃ๐ many ๐ฌ of the strategies ๐ค that are also ๐จ mentioned ๐ฒ๐๐ผ๐ on ๐ those sites ๐ป, and if you ๐๐ค follow ๐ them, you ๐ will be dating ๐ซ and sleeping ๐ค with more women โ๐ฉ. But ๐ if you ๐ are merely ๐ซ learning ๐ญ๐๐ about ๐ฆ these strategies โ to increase โ the number ๐ขโ of women ๐ง you ๐ sleep ๐ด with, and focus ๐ mainly ๐ท on ๐ increasing ๐โฌ that number ๐ข, then you’re missing ๐งฆ the point ๐ฏ. You ๐ may ๐ be winning ๐ฅ the game ๐ฎ, but ๐ do you ๐ have any idea ๐ง ๐ฌ๐ญ why ๐ค you’re even ๐ playing โค๐ฎ๐ป it? I ๐ hear ๐๐ from many ๐ข men ๐จ๐ผ, “I ๐ want ๐ to date ๐ซ more women ๐ง, but ๐ all ๐ฏ that seduction ๐ stuff ๐ฉ๐๐ป๐๐ป just seems ๐ like ๐ a bunch ๐๐๐ of psychological ๐ค mind ๐คฏ games ๐ฎ.” But ๐ why ๐คทโ๐ค do men ๐จ want ๐ to date ๐ more women ๐ฉ๐ฉ๐ป๐ฉ๐ผ? Why ๐ข๐ก๐ค do they want ๐ to attract ๐ as many ๐ฌ women ๐ฉ as possible ๐ค? So they maximize ๐ช๐๐ their chance ๐
โโ๏ธ๐ซ at attracting the woman ๐ง they want ๐. Imagine ๐ญ your ๐ ideal ๐ง ๐ฌ๐ญ woman ๐ฉ. She ๐ฉ is beautiful ๐, and intelligent ๐ค, and sweet ๐ฌ, and respectful ๐๐๐, and has all ๐ฏ the other qualities ๐ you ๐ find ๐ ideal ๐ก (since ๐จ, after 2๏ธโฃ all ๐ฏ, she’s ๐ค๐ฉ your ๐ ideal ๐ก woman ๐ฉ). By maximizing your ๐ ability ๐ช๐ผ๐ง to attract ๐
women ๐ฉ๐ป๐ฉ๐ผ, you’re maximizing your ๐ chances ๐ซ of finding ๐ญ a woman ๐ฉ like ๐ her ๐จ๐ธ among ๐ฐ them. In doing so, you ๐๐ want ๐ to present ๐ the best ๐ version โน of yourself to her ๐ฉ. This is our ‘game,’ ๐ฎ๐ฅ๐น and this is why โ JoshSway . com ๐
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ฐ doesn’t just cover ๐ the strategies ๐ค and techniques ๐ก you ๐ can use ๐ป to do this, but ๐ why ๐ค they matter ๐
. Until you ๐ understand โ๐ why ๐ค you’re playing ๐ฎ the game ๐ฎ, you’ll never โ be able ๐๐ช to truly ๐ฏ master ๐ฏ it.