My wife was raised in a Jewish household. She follows Lilith as her personal deity. I’m more on the Norse/germanic slant of British traditional Wicca. As such I made a point to get to know her lady. My perception is she wants her sons and daughters to be free to choose. My wife and I keep a pretty good partnership going with a lot of freedom. Lilith seems to like me because I respect her and her sons and daughter. I think there are a lot of women that have been hurt by A man and thus blame all men, they seek a goddess who aligns with that. I think its important to remind everyone that a major theme in wicca is the interplay between sexual partners. This starts with respect. Let’s try to get back to respect even for people we may not like. Let’s show this Goddess that we respect her position.